Identity Crisis Solved! ?

My brothers are the best part of who I am. I have created my identity through their understanding of who I am: Not just the sister (the only sister), The Princess - and not in the bad way! The one with never ending worry and concern for those I care about. Not tolerant or peaceful really, but loving none the less. A warm heart and perpetually open arms.
I have found serenity from my parents, from my mom, by defining myself the way my friends see me: patient at times, understanding with an adoring command for every individual who matters to me. Honest to te core and affectionate.
I have chosen to create my view through the eyes of others and not from the perspective of the wring side of the looking glass. Because I can't win that way. And the business of losing to myself makes for a very lonely battle.